Price My Space Party :: 8 PM Tonight!


Welcome! It's almost time for Price My Space. We {me and y'all} thought it would be fun for everyone to share what they spent on some things in their home. And, I wanted to make sure all the people on the west coast had a fair chance to get in early so I opened up the Linky at 8pm Sunday.

I try to keep the rules as minimum as possible so, as far as what you can share, please feel free to reveal as much or as little as you'd like. Just have a table you want to show us? Fine. Have an entire room you are dying to tell us about? Go for it. And remember, this is not just a place to brag about our bargains. {as much as I LOVE doing that!} In real life, lots of us do end up paying retail for some things, please feel free to tell us about those finds as well. We are being real here girls.


I know I find it encouraging to see what people spend on certain items on their home. What they feel was worth the money, what they feel like was a waste, what they found on the side of the road, what they spent 28 hours refinishing... you know stuff like that.

I already told you my deep dark spending secrets so I could make this post as short as possible. Now, to the good stuff, YOU. Go ahead, sign in with Mr. Linky and Price Your Space--remember to link to the actual POST not simply your blog address or else your link will be deleted and you'll have to relink correctly. And, I love it when you tell people what you are doing by adding in the Price My Space button and linking back to this post so others can share in the fun.


Price My Space:: Living Room Part 2


The
Price My Space Party is Monday so don't forget to get your rooms ready. I may even have the post up Sunday evening so you west coasties can get in on the action early.


This is the second half of pricing my living room. Read the first half here. Let's get to numbers 5,6,7 & 8 shall we?


5. Pair of these chairs. Y'all these chairs have a fancy name, and for the life of me I cannot remember what they are called. I've used them here and here and a whole slew of other places. These chairs move around more than a swarm of flies on a watermelon and were one of the best items I've ever spend money on. They were each $350 and that included 2 matching ottomans that I use as extra seating and a coffee table.

The blue table was a yard sale find at my sister's house and I traded clothes for it, I'm sure. It started off black. Pillows: Target $20 each. Lamp: Target $40, years ago. I told you about the drapes in part 1. Total for this part of the room: $780 and that includes the two ottomans you don't see in this photo, I counted the windows in part one.


6. Rug: Tuesday Morning, 5 years ago $200. It's a 5 x 8. I wish it were an 8x 10. This rug has held up, again for 5 years. And it's made so well that I can flip it over and use the other side if it gets too dirty. I really should just have it cleaned.



7. The Toile Sofa: I've written about it before. We bought it in High Point at a showroom called Utility Craft. It's a Clayton Marcus that is/was a division of Lazy Boy. It's got those cushy down wrapped cushions and it's just made really, really well. It's held up to five years with 3 boys, a man who sleeps on it, and 5 moves. It cost about $1800. A huge amount for us. We paid cash for it and spent a while deciding what we wanted. It can seat lots of people/kids if needed and one day, when the toile gets all ripped up, I'll just have it recovered. Total: $1800 {I took a poll to see what others spent on their sofas to make sure I wasn't the only one who's spent this much, click here to see the results}


8. Red Chair: This sweet thing is quite worn. But I love the lines, color and scale. It was $350 purchased also in 2004 in Thomasville, NC at some hole in the wall store that was going out of business. The toile pillow came with the sofa and the other pillow got a 30 minute makeover. The picture on the wall came from my husband's grandparent's house and I wish I had 67 of them to hang on every wall. Total: $350

Total for second half: $3130 plus $552.75 from the first half = $3682.75 for our living room that seats 8 comfortably and 12 uncomfortably. And has already lasted 5 years.

Well, as you can tell, there were some things that we spend money on and other things we found super cheap. To me, if you have the money, it's worth it to spend it on upholstered pieces that will cushion the family hineys for many years. The things that you sit on get the most wear and need to hold up more than anything else. And that's where the bulk of our money went. I'd rather have a nice sofa than go to Mexico. As far as windows and walls and accessories, I try to find those things as inexpensively as possible. You can build those over time and switch out and rearrange, shop the house and really get creative with all that extra stuff. But, if you can, it is worth it to put your money into a well made sofa.

I've also seen some amazing hand me downs, consignment and goodwill finds and slipcovered sofas that have looked fantastic.

Five years ago, we had a budget set aside to help us furnish our house and for that I am forever grateful. It might have to last us the rest of our lives. Now, I have close to a zero budget. I am so glad that we purchased some things back when we could. I wouldn't go back and invest that money or spend it any differently. I love that we "invested" it in our home and get to enjoy it every day. And now, I have a new challenge, how to decorate on a virtually non existent budget.

So, join us Monday. Feel free to price your space. No pressure. But, whether you spend thousands at a retail shop or quarters at a yard sale, you can have a beautiful home that you enjoy and that blesses your family. I cannot wait to see how you all have beautified your nests!



New Kitchen Collection from DaySpring

Price My Space:: Living Room Part 1


The bulk of our furniture was purchased five years ago. It was 5 years ago to the month I think, when my husband and I sat down on the lone place to sit in our house besides the toilet and decided it was time to think about furnishing our home. At the time we were able to set aside some money every month to put towards furniture and such. My goal was to focus on one room at a time so we could see progress and so I wouldn't be overwhelmed. My other goal was to pay cash for everything.

My first priority was places to sit. So we started in the living room. I had a yard sale and sold our old furniture and we had no where to sit for a few weeks while we waited for our sofa.


1. Window Mistreatments: the fabric was $7 per yard {purchased at 1502 Fabrics in Thomasville, NC, 5 years ago} each panel is about 3 yards so each panel was $21 plus the trim at $3ish per yard so that is another $9 per panel. Each panel was about $30 completed. I bought the rod at Target for $30 and have used it in 4 houses so far. We've got another window that cost the same on the other side of the room. {See how to make them here.} Total for both windows: $180 These are my most expensive windows and have been used for 5 years in 5 different houses! And I wish I would have bought one more foot of fabric--then I could hang my rods even higher.


2. Sofa Table and stuff: Table $109 at a crazy unfinished furniture place that has since gone out of business. I bought it already painted black 5 years ago. Changed out the knob: $4. Ottoman was included in a set I'll tell you about on down. Lamps, TJ Maxx, $39 each, 5 years ago--I moved them from my boy's room. On the table there's some red stuff I pulled out of this wreath and a box thing that I had in college sitting on a candle holder that is chipped that was $1. I painted the box blue last month. Pointy thing on the wall, Goodwill, a few months ago, $7. Total: $199 not including the ottoman.



3. Armiore: Purchased used from a friend for $75 --again, 5 years ago. I painted it last month with Behr Paint Plus Primer all in one stuff that was ??? Maybe $30ish. I'll tell you more about painting it soon but here's the before. It was super easy. I still need to find 3 knobs for it. Plates; the middle blue one was a gift to myself back when I had that big tassel sale I bought this plate for $13 at HomeGoods. I had the red ones {part of a set from Target 5 years ago 4 for $10} big green ones were $2 each from the rich Goodwill and the square one was $3 from HomeGoods. Total: $130


4. Fireplace Wall: Well, it already looks different up there. I'll list what you see in the original photo and I'm still not happy with it at all so just so you know, it will keep looking different.

  • mirror: $50 Garden Ridge 2 years ago
  • white urn: $20 Hobby Lobby 6 years ago
  • red plate: $2.50 part of that set
  • white crock: wedding gift {one of my favorite things}
  • books: .75 cents yard sale
  • wood thing on the fireplace front $13 TJ Maxx 6 years ago {hiding an ugly little scroll thing}
Total: $86.25

Now:

  • urn: $20 with free branches from my yard
  • books: .75 cents
  • shutters: $10
  • wood thing: $13
  • starfish: ?? I have no idea how that appeared in my house
Total: $43.75 and I like it better

So far we are at $552.75 and we don't even have a place to sit yet. And if you want to see the photos closer in, you should be able to click them to enlarge. Go here for part 2.



Sofa Poll!!







There's a poll embedded in this post about sofas and how much yours was so click over and enter if you are reading via a feed reader. I'd love to hear what you spent! Tomorrow, I'll start pricing my space. And the Price My Space party is Monday!

Anyone know why my link within is up there?

Goodwill Hunting


Since it was a holiday weekend, my mom and I opted to do a little thrifting. You know you are frugal when you complain about how expensive the Goodwill prices are. These two little things that I know not what to call them were $3 each.


This lamp base that I cannot get a decent photograph of was $2.99--now that's more like it. My first thought was that it looked like something some kid made in wood shop class but, it looks great on my white dresser. Everything looks great on the white dresser. I already had the lampshade.


Plantation Shutters: $5 per shut. Big, textural, take up space without annoying me. That's why I like shutters. And I can paint them.


More shutters behind the sofa. If they end up going there they'll be hung eventually.


Metal cake stand like the ones that Maxi B's has. I have always wanted one. $5.


Our thrift stores are clean and new and inviting.


They don't smell funny and are organized well.


Want to see what other people found over the weekend you can see a whole slew of great finds at Southern Hospitality.

Have you shopped your local thrift stores lately? You never know what you might find!

Fabric Buying Tips

Fabric. If I were stranded on a desert {deserted?} island and could only have 5 tools to decorate my tree house, fabric would be one of the chosen tools.

We've talked about where to shop for fabric and many of you are asking how to know what fabric to buy for certain projects. An entire blog could be dedicated to this subject, there are so many things to do with fabric and so many seductive and utilitarian fabrics available. I'm sure if you started a blog like that you could write for years without running out of things to talk about.


I struggled with writing this post because part of me feels like people would like a list of rules and regulations for fabric buying. And I really don't believe in many rules and regulations when it comes to decorating. Nesting and making your home beautiful combines something creative with something personal and who needs rules for that? For every rule there is an equal and opposite exception where someone not only broke the rule, but did so with style and gusto.

Balance the no rules philosophy with the fact that some things truly don't look all that great together or work out all that well and we are stuck right in the center of decorating tension. Which isn't all that bad of a place to be. All you need to do is balance some general guidelines with trial and error and personal opinion and you can come up with a stunning result.

Amy Butler

So if you supply the trial and error, creativity and personal opinion, I'll supply some general, random thoughts and guidelines regarding fabric. The following are not rules.


What to Take When Fabric Shopping:



1. TAKE YOUR TIME! this is highly important. There is no rush. Southern Living is not showing up at your door tomorrow and if they are, girl, you had better hurry!

2. Take your fabric file, it will assist you in coordinating existing fabrics

3. Take a friend she can giggle with you and be moral support

4. Take away swatches. Don't leave the fabric store without fabric samples to look at in the room where you want to use them. Label each swatch with masking tape {if the store doesn't do this for you} and write the store name and cost per yard.


Our local store has remnants labeled, they are all 50% off the marked price, a great deal

What to look for

1. For window mistreatments, you want 54 inch wide decorator's fabric. If you are doing long drapes you don't want a heavy upholstery grade fabric that won't hang well. Pull out the fabric on the bolt out a few feet and grab it in your fist and hold it up and see how it drapes. If it's super stiff, it's not going to look all that great on your windows. On the other hand if it's extremely thin, it could look cheap if not lined. Look at premade drapes and take note of the kinds of fabrics used.

2. For recovering dining room chairs you want a thicker fabric. Stay away from silk it will get stained and worn fast. Look for a little thicker fabric and remember, solid colors will show dirt quicker than a pattern.

3. If you sew and want to line your drapes, consider using a twin sheet. For my duvet cover, I used a coordinating sheet for the back and fabric on the front. That saved me some money and time.

my bedskirt

4. My usual limit on fabric is $7 per yard. We have so many great fabric stores in our area that I have figured out it's worth the wait for me to look around until I find something in my price range. Most of my mistreatments were $5-7 per yard, my duvet cover was $8 per yard, the bedskirt was a splurge at $30 per yard and I even temporarily lost my mind and spent $45 for 3/4 of a yard of french knotted silk. I'm sure if I would have been patient I could have found something comparable for less. But I admit, I adore the fabric. If there is a really expensive fabric that you are in love with, buy a small amount and use it on a pillow or table topper, runner or even a lampshade.

my expensive french knot worth every penny


If you are looking for small yardages of luscious coordinating fabric, try out Fresh Squeezed Fabrics and search their fabric bundles. This would be great for a fabric canvas, pillow, ragamuffin garland and various other projects that take small amounts of fabric.

Want to read more about fabric? Guide to Choosing Decorator Fabric.

Remember if you are making mistreatments, keep your yardage price low. If you end up spending $30 per yard and say you will need 3 yards per panel for one window you would spend $180. You would be better off buying from Half Price Drapes or Ballard Designs. Mistreatments are best done when you find super inexpensive fabric or fabric that you already have.

Want more guidelines to decorate by? Read The Best Decorating Advice Ever at The Inspired Room. And if you missed this weekend's Bird Watching, be sure to scroll down, there are some great projects this week.

What are your fabric tips?

Bird Watching


Before and After : Ashely's Pallet Daybed
@ Design*Sponge


DIY project : Morgane's Drawer Hangers
@ D*S again


A license plate mistreatment @ Whimsies & Whatnots


Beadboard Wallpaper Treatment @ Southern Hospitality




Kimba's got her pins on SALE!
@ A Soft Place to Land




Family Tree Revisited @ Blue Castle



Henry's Nursery @ Holly Mathis Interiors

Even more fantastic ideas at the Nest Files!

State of the Nest Address :: 2009 is Half Gone Version

My word. This year is half over. I thought it would be fun for me to write a big long post all about Nesting Place, the blog -- kind of like a State of the Nest Address.

Best of the Nest {so far this year}

If you are new here, you might want to check out some of the most well read posts from the last six months:

10 Minutes to a Room You'll Love :: A series where we talked about super quick easy fixes for the family room, master bedroom, bathroom and the kitchen.


Staging Your Home for Sale :: Another series that Remodeling Guy and I did together all about home staging, a must read if you are putting your house on the market.


How to Tablescape With What You Already Have was one one of those posts that I need to go back and reread and follow. It's amazing how smart those real designers are!

And who could forget Lampapalooza?

One of my personal favorites :: 10 Ways to Avoid Having a Home You'll Love

And, if you didn't get your free ebook, click here.

Top 20 Referrers
for the first 6 months of 2009:

Over 50% of Nesting Place visitors come from other blogs. Thank you all so much for taking the time to link to the Nest!

  1. Kimba
  2. Melissa
  3. Layla
  4. Emily
  5. Angie
  6. Kelly
  7. Shannon
  8. Sophie
  9. Rhoda
  10. Edie
  11. Melissa
  12. Meredith
  13. Tsh
  14. Chris
  15. Melanie {I'm currently listening to her music}
  16. ANNICOLE
  17. Tim
  18. Pretty Organizer
  19. Wendy
  20. Kristen

Still to Come


Want to know what you can look forward to for the rest of the year? I hardly am one to plan out blogging like some organized people but, I've got a vague idea.



I figure, why come up with my own ideas when I can just copy Problogger? We'll walk/fly? through 31 days of nest dressing ideas in August. Or some other month that has 31 days.



Price My Space
coming July 13th start thinking of what stuff you want to tell us about.

Some other highlights:
  • more mistreatments
  • how to have a swap meet
  • fresh new, amazing tassels
  • vlogging
  • giveaways

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Your Turn

Tell me, what do you want to read more about? What do you want to read less about? Is there a topic you wish we would cover? Feel free to repeat the same thing that someone else says that way I'll know that lots of people feel the same way.

And thank you, so much for reading. I just love hanging out here at the Nest with you. If you weren't here it would just be me, by myself talking way too much.